This book is written in the first person by Aman, a Nepalese man living in London, but he could be named Everyman, as there is a universal quality to his story. Not every man is interested in technology, or art. Not in every culture is an uncle expected to plan his niece’s elaborate wedding, but the stress Aman experiences is experienced by many, if not all. The story was interesting to me, as one who does not possess Y chromosomes, in entering the thoughts and emotions of a man who is enduring the stresses of life and its effects. Why are men so stressed? Why do they get quiet and depressed?
Aman has a high-stress, but exciting and fulfilling job, a wonderful wife and 2 teenage children, and a lifelong best friend and confident who gives him encouragement and advice. Suddenly, in his 40’s, his best friend is killed in a car crash. Aman is overcome with grief; we are taken with him to the abyss, where misfortune continues to follow him to the edge of despair. We learn, bit by bit, how he is able to recover. Hint: it does not involve medication. This well-written book will resonate fully with all cultures, races and genders.
Just remember, add salt and chili powder last when making Tarkeri.
Review by Sally Kimberley